40 and Leftovering away

The first thing they say about Gloria Steinem in Mrs. America, where Cate Blanchett and Sarah Paulson are looking at her face splashed across the front covers of a magazine, while having their heads shampooed and steamed and blow dried in a salon, having to…

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Ukraine…

The first time I registered Ukraine as a tactile memory that I could touch and smell, was when I walked across the border from The Northern Maramureš county of Romania, to the point on the bridge where Ukraine began – the mighty river Tisa, gushed…

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The Purple Lipstick

I knew that day, that the red lipstick had given her a little nudge, had bestowed upon her some purpose, an inner resistance to the outer fragility, an anesthetic to the disfiguration, a figment of a previously held routine yet untouched by tragedy, a color,…

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Lifespan

50 is the new 30! – we tell our friends when their wives/ husbands throw them a grand surprise party, we make lame jokes, we suspend retirement plans, we tease them about when the next date is, we tell them the salt and pepper looks…

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Women who run with the Wolves

‘Everyone who can read should read this book’- says Maya Angelou, on the ebbing, porously pale cover of this book.The modest cover also has a rendition of a wolf – ‘La Loba’.It’s thick, it’s a 500 pages and sits unpretty, unornamented, amidst fellow book spines,…

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Elena Ferrante

People on a reader’s block, people trying to read a lot, this is a great place to start and hone your speed. Here’s a review that I wrote for a reading group. Okay so 1696 pages of Naples is in my head and I can’t…

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Auschwitz and Kashmir

The Auschwitz Boy, Kashmir and The wall of the Anti-National. I met this boy in Auschwitz – much younger than me, from Czech Republic and who happened to walk with me through Birkenau, and I was immensely glad for his footsteps in tandem with mine.…

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